I don’t lead, I follow.

As kids, being line leader was only thee most important job. When did we stop wanting to be line leader and settle for following?

Did it happened in middle school when most of us decided that fitting in is much cooler than standing out?  Maybe being a leader comes with too much responsibility. What do you think?

I wonder what the world would be like today if people like Dr. King decided not to lead.

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A special thanks to Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. and President Barack Obama for continuing to lead.

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Thank you for reading. Dream big! xoxo

A Dedication to Trayvon Martin “Little Black Boy Wonder” by Omari Hardwick

Au Naturale Anggg

[singing my rendition of  You Will Know by Black Men United]

Mmm…hmm…hmm…mmm…hmm…
Yeah, yeah

When I was a young girl
I had visions of fame
They were wild and they were free
They were blessed with my name…

I L.O.V.E. that song!

Anyway, one of my visions included attending Spelman College and stomping across campus chanting “Oo-ooop!” with the Delta’s or “Skee wee!” with the AKA’s. None of that happened. I missed the undergrad pledge opportunity, but at the end of 2011, I kind of joined a sorority called the natural hair movement.

I imagine the sisterhood, empowerment and bonding is pretty similar to a sorority. Don’t burst my bubble! (insert side eye)

Last month, my friend Angela hosted about two handfuls of her curlfriends for an au naturale girls day. It included girl talk, bonding, motivation, hair makeovers, sharing tips, a product exchange, yummy healthy food and adult refreshments.

I thoroughly enjoyed the experience (minus sitting under the dryer) and gained a few new curlfriends. Good times!

Check out the photos below.

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81bb4a3cb08911e2a67b22000a9f188a_7Angela & I gave Valeka a hair makeover using Curlformers

f0ccd932b06f11e2914322000a1f984e_7Me unhappily under the dryer with flex-rods

e9750fd6b10711e2ac8a22000a9e2947_7This is the next day. I was over sitting under the dryer, so I left w/ the rods in and allowed my hair to air dry.

cb70a1ccb07f11e28c1022000a9e08e0_7Product exchange items

E0F57D1B-5E02-4842-9453-21F9E487A3D7Everyone left with a bottle of Kinky-Curly‘s Knot Today & Curling Custard samples. Both were provided courtesy of Kinky-Curly, thanks to their PR rep Erica.
IMG_1260Yummy food & refreshments

Upgrade You

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Whether it’s a career, job, relationship, friendship, health or fitness, don’t be afraid to upgrade.

Confession: I’ve allowed myself to accept less than I deserve and sat comfortably in a below great position. That’s not the person I am, nor want to be. I decided to give up good and go for great. Let’s do it together!

How to Upgrade You

1. Evaluate – Take notice of where you are and where you want to be. If you don’t know where you are and where you’re going, it’s easy to get lost.

2. Plan – Map out the steps you must take to reach your goals. Write a list, create a vision board and compose a outline. Having multiple visuals serve as constant reminders to keep you focused on your end game. Lists allow you a sense of accomplishment, each item crossed off brings you closer to your goal.

3. Execute – Fulfill the requirements of your lists, vision board and outline. Keep placing one foot in front of the other. It may seem that you are far away, but you can reach your goals. If you fall down, get back up. Remain consistent, positive, focused and work for what you want.